After thirty, don’t talk about personality

I have added some self-media accounts and have been paying attention to their growth. The joys, sorrows, joys, and life details revealed by themselves are like a drama.

What they staged seems to be a big drama, and every scene seems to be magnificent and epic. There are star-rated hotels that I have never seen before; there are overseas life that I have never experienced; there are jobs in Fortune 500 companies that I can't imagine; there are also interesting conversations that I look up to in amazement. I am not envious or jealous, I applaud them from the bottom of my heart. Life is about living a wonderful life.

I am also performing my own play, but the stage size is different, the roles are different, and the roles are different. But how do you know there is no big curtain behind this small stage?

Play your part well, grow up calmly in this city, and be as tough as possible. But I am also afraid that this era is so urgent that it does not require any humble strength. Perhaps it will soon be impossible to withstand the impact of these waves. The tide is so terrifying. It is not like a long time ago when the blacksmith handed over his hammer and furnace to his son and then slept peacefully. And the descendants don't need to think too much, they have already received a survival manual.

In this era, there are really not many people who are willing to talk calmly. There is no stage for me yet, and I don’t want to get applause from all living beings. People often applaud, gather together to watch curiously, and talk so much that they can easily forget what they are applauding for. After-dinner conversations are meaningless. Those who are greedy for fame never end well.

No matter how small the role is, there is a reason to live. I have no reason not to play myself seriously. Everything is changing so fast that you don’t even know when you will fall behind and never keep up with the times. For example, buzzwords, hot topics, and new apps pop up from time to time in the circle of friends. You can only quickly check Baidu in your spare time to get some information, so as not to be unable to answer the call. It is terrible to not keep up with the times, which means that you will not be able to make money and lose the qualification to live a decent life.

They all told me that as long as I persist in design, I can become a design master in the future, but I don’t want to become a master and godfather. I just want to make some money. Are you asking me how much I love this profession? That's like asking me if I like to eat rice. Who loves rice? This is where the energy comes from. I also like to eat fish and meat delicacies, but it is really not as practical as rice. It is life, there is no saying whether to love it or not to love it. In addition to my work, I also hope to climb every mountain, every glacier and chasm, walk on the path traveled by our ancestors, and live a life of drinking blood.

Just like the lay monks in Zhongnan Mountain, spend the rest of your life peacefully and peacefully.

I read a quote from an internet celebrity and thought it made sense: A mature person will gradually find that there are fewer and fewer things to blame or complain about, because everyone has their own difficulties.

This is indeed the case. It can also be simply summed up as as we grow older, we think more and more forward and backward. It cannot be said that we are standing still, it is considered growth.

I don’t know if my current lifestyle is considered tiring. It’s just that I really don’t want to deal with smart people. No matter how small a shopping mall is, there are so many smart people. You can see what you can’t see with every move you make, but the faces behind them can be as beautiful as angels or as ferocious as Quasimodo. There are many ways to interpret what they said. It’s not that I don’t understand the solutions, I just hate this kind of complicated guessing game. It’s really childish.

If I could do it over again, I would definitely not choose to start a business. But what has happened now, these seven years have passed, and there will definitely be no turning back. A businessman does not get up early because he is unprofitable. I originally dreamed of becoming an artist, writer or explorer, but now I dance every day, vulgar and tenacious.

The world is like this. Everyone is like an ant and a weed. Life and death have their own destiny. There are no big things in people's lives, just small things. The ups and downs of wind and clouds, the rise and fall of tides are called climate and ecology.

After thirty, don’t talk about personality. The branches of heaven and earth are sixty years long.

Confucius said: At fifteen I set my heart on learning; at twenty I reached adulthood; at thirty I stood firm; at forty I was free from doubt; at fifty I understood Heaven's mandate; at sixty I listened with an open mind; and at seventy I could follow my heart without overstepping proper bounds.

It has been raining continuously for the past two days, and it seems that winter is coming, and the New Year is about to begin. After three years of hard work on this public account, Tencent finally opened up the original statement and comment functions to me. Because subscriptions have always been low, and the content is just like a hammer and hammer, the quality is not high. Although it has no monetary value, I think it is very important, and thank you for your continued attention.